Dating is a right of passage for adolescents and young adults, but there are more dangers to dating than heartbreak. Women ages 16-24 are four times more likely to be raped and 80-90 percent of female rape victims know their attacker. Sixteen percent of male students who committed rape took part in episodes involving more than one attacker. Seven to10 percent of rape victims are male and their attackers are almost always male.
These are alarming statistics that many people would rather not think about. Date rape, also known as acquaintance rape, is a very real possibility for men and women. But those at risk can take this knowledge and form tactics to prevent date rape.
· An air of superiority
· Body posturing such as blocking a doorway
· Harboring negative attitudes towards women.
· Extreme jealousy and controlling behavior
· Wanting one to engage in activities that limit resistance, such as drinking, drugs or going to an isolated place.
3) Stay sober and be aware of your surroundings — 75% of college rapes involve the use of drugs or alcohol.
4) Listen to your intuition! If something feels wrong, it is wrong.
5) Be assertive and don’t be afraid to “create a scene” if necessary.
6) If you say no and they don’t stop, scream no and create distance. Get away immediately.
7) When going out, buddy-up with a friend and look-out for each other.
8) Never leave a drink unattended! ( see “On Guard” blog at pmaduluth.com)
9) Don’t be embarrassed to ask for help.
10) Take a self-defense course. Knowledge is power.
If you are raped, don’t change clothes or take a shower and go straight to the ER. There are doctors and counselors there who are trained to help.
Date rape is often a difficult subject to talk but remember “Knowledge is Power.”